Overall, dating is a learning process in which two people take time to get to know eachother, and for most couples, dating becomes easier over time as the individuals start to feel more comfortable with each other.Avoiding these common dating mistakes will lead to lots of pleasant experiences."There are different expectations that people have of their partners, but ultimately you can't really control them," he says, sitting on a couch at the Legoland Hotel in Carlsbad, California.
, the 39-year-old actor is a bit of an expert on romantic relationships.
Because the film, which he co-wrote with his wife, Emily V.
Gordon, was inspired by the real life story of how their romance came to be.
Sitting down with Nanjiani at the press day for his latest, , the actor shared one of the best pieces of dating advice he has — that you might just be shooting yourself in the foot, when it comes to finding a partner.
It's a sweet, layered, and romantic story, and because Nanjiani spent years of his life crafting (and living) in the reality of it, he has a lot to say about love and life.
And his biggest piece of advice for achieving a successful relationship surrounds accepting all aspects of your partner — and realizing you can't change them.
While it is helpful to learn from the past, focus on the present and get to know the person you are with.
Openly comparing your partner to someone from your past can also lead to unnecessary arguments.3.
Instead, ask open-ended questions such as “What type of movies do you like to watch” or “What types of food do you like?