If we get along, then he will apply for the visa for me.
To be honest, sometimes I am not happy being with him, but I don't want to lose him. Dear Danqi, What a Chinese woman should pay attention to when she is dating an American man or any man, is how she feels when she is with him, talking with him on the phone or through the Internet. Or, do you feel that your thoughts and opinions are not important, that he is not that interested in getting to know you or that he gets angry quickly when you express thoughts and ideas which are different then his?
He said that once his father-in-law pushed the door and walked in to the toilet when he was sitting on the toilet seat. The perfectly layout of all furniture is all for look only. Chinese love meat, he likes to eat whatever dishes his wife made, but better without knowing what they are. In many cases, the girl does not know what is written in the letters as they are written by employees of the company.
In his opinion, Chinese wives were born with a mission to transform men and control them in everything. Even in China, there are many such companies, but now I have heard these companies handle correspondence between man and woman.
Hi This is Len from the usa I married a girl from china a year ago she is the best thing that has happened in my life As for the family and the controling part thats up to you if you let it happen dont blame anyone but yourself always make things clear what you want and what you dont If you cant agree then dont get married I just sat and watched an American TV program dealing with "buy one partner or spouse by mail order." It was American companies that cooperated with similar marriage agencies in Russia.
The consequences in his article are true in some aspects, so it is a good reference for international marriage.
This article was probably written by someone who might consider his marriage to a Chinese woman a flop. I married a Chinese woman and she is not like this at all. But for foreigners who want to marry Chinese, they should be well prepared to face any result caused by culture difference.
Before getting married with your Chinese lover, please read this article and see if you are still going to marry her.
Recently, a blogger named “North America Brother Cui” post an article about 6 consequences of a foreigner will have if he marries a Chinese woman because of big culture difference. Once you married to a Chinese, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family. Once you live with Chinese, you do not have privacy any more. Your lady will bring up things back to long time ago. He declared that the reason why China can not produce a explorer like Columbus is Chinese wife will start inquiring before he sail, such as “where? The company has many employees "ghost writer" to whom a number of people that they would write to.
In less than half a year, his wife’s parents, sisters with kids came to his home. Chinese are hospitable; there should be no distance between on another if being together. His wife wraps the furniture and rug with plastic in order to keep them clean without dust. The man from abroad choose one or he is interested in knowing more about.
(I did not know it myself, but heard a lot about them in the years I lived in China). Well I am an American and I am considering marrying my Chinese gf, I will make this quick, I think most american family's have NO value!