Genital herpes doesn't detract from your many desirable qualities, which have drawn people to you in the past and will continue to make you a great catch. The first date after a genital herpes diagnosis may seem a little strange, however.
I was told when I'd come off them I'd have an outbreak immediately (cus my body will be adj... lately I've been feeling lost because I found the perfect girl but since I've found of about what I got, I've been pushing her lately because I feel infected, like she's going to catch what I got by j...
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When in doubt do a search about Herpes on the net, after all, the net is at your finger tips! this questions a melon scratcher..to be honest, it's better not to put myself in a situation like that. To be perfectlly honest, I had known her for about a year before I began dating her, and I had come to the conclusion that I DID love this woman (very true! The next thing I did was hit the books, find a Herpes support group, educate myself on all the known "Do's & Don't's" on the subject - I then proceeded to have a loving relationship, which included a decent sex life, for the next 7 months.
Thankfully I'm still young and thus i seldom have to even think of such a concept not trying to be rude or anything... Don't get me wrong, the fact that she has it isn't funny. I finally realized that other factors (personality, distance, relationship preferences) were keeping me from making this a permanent relationship.
If you are one to be candid with people, you'll want to blurt it out. There are some things you should reveal about yourself right away -- for example, that you're married, or that you're just in town for the week -- but some things are better left for the appropriate moment.
It's up to you to decide the right time to tell a date that you have genital herpes.
I'm going through my first outbreak of genital herpes right now and everything hurts. but every single time i have sex it feels like my vagina is ripped!!
I'm on Acyclovir now and I use tea tree oil but it's still almost unbearabl... i had my first out break and never a second one....
Well, there's always toys to enjoy for sexual pleasure with that person..if the guy has herpes, he could always jerk off while watching the girl pleasure herself, or strip..sure there could be sexual intamacy without the actual act? but I know a couple that does and well the Guy had it for a few yrs and well she loves him and well they got married and well they been together for over 6 yrs and i know he had to tell her.. Is this a magical soul-wrenching connection that encompasses your every waking thought?