The easy to use program is discreet and easy to install. Sex Messenger is an easy to download program that allows you to chat with other signed in members.
Profiles are detailed, so it’s easy to narrow down to find the type of person you’re in the mood for.
The layout of Sex Messenger will be very familiar with folks who have used ICQ, Yahoo Messenger and even the older AIM services.
Because the program is app based, if you use multiple devices, you’ll have to download the app on each device.
(Although you can have one profile across all those apps.) The program itself – while very familiar and easy to use – it a bit out dated in look and feel.
A few weeks ago, feeling bored and a couple of glasses into a bottle of wine, I texted a man who I used to see (very casually) and can still be relied upon for a bit of flirty text action (a couple of times he tried to step this up into flirty sext action, but I shot him down, because there’s nothing less sexy than sexting unless at least one of you is a former poet laureate). He then followed this barrage of Shakespearean amour with: ‘I’m really sorry, but I’ve lost all the numbers on my phone, who is this?
True to form, he quickly responded, and started flirting away (I say ‘flirting’, he made some crack about needing a visit from the nurse, and stuck a winky face emoticon on the end of everything… ’ Yep – he had no idea who I was, and just put it out there to EVERYONE. I’m not even sure when he lost my number – he could have been blithely textually winking to a total stranger for months.You can convince yourself that you’re getting 90 per cent of their attention, when in reality you’re getting 10 per cent. I’ve only just seen it – weird, there must be something wrong with my phone. Another friend says she enjoys flirty text message banter (yes, alright, I said banter, calm down), as part of the build up to a date. ; ) See above Hey – did I just have a missed call from you? Why would I be calling you at 2am on a Saturday night? Last week, when you sent the text message, he had something (someone) better to do. Members also have the ability to create blog entries – many use these to go into greater detail of what exactly they’re looking for.One of the most popular options for paid members is the webcam to webcam connections where you can chat real time with the users before hooking up in real life.The free options are rather extensive, and you can easily use the basic program without upgrading. You can also use its basic features without having to spend any money.