We work on providing you as many options as possible in the shortest amount of time so you can spend the majority of your stay dating your number one choice. Understand, it is very normal to have hesitancy prior to such an undertaking. The familiarity is not there for immediate comfort and acceptance.
Don’t bind yourself to the past conditions of domestic dating and limit your options when you have the opportunity to meet many foreign women, one who may be a wonderful and unexpected surprise that would not have made your list of one. You’re not accustomed to having an outsider find you a wife.
I have had many men call us or come to our door with sad stories of how they were suppose to meet a woman they were communicating with that never showed up at the airport, or the woman they met was not right for them, or had a boyfriend, or was not spending enough time with them, and they were now in a strange city not knowing what to do.
They did the worst thing possible in international dating: visit one foreign woman.
I have seen thousands of interactions between American men and Colombian women.
From these observations you will have the opportunity to learn from the mistakes I and others have made during our search for foreign brides.
We have had clients write women months in advance of visiting and within one hour of meeting these women, for whom they had such high hopes, realize she’s not the one.
A two hour date can tell you more about your attraction and connection to a woman than months of writing.
Ask yourself, did you marry the last woman you went out with?
Did you marry the one before that, or the one before that?
Furthermore, we conduct this process in an environment that supports and cares for you every step of the way.
While it would seem writing to foreign women prior to your visit would be a good thing, it carries unexpected negatives.
They wonder, could it really be true that many attractive women would be interested in meeting me. And you’re not comfortable with a service from an industry (international matchmaking) that, rightfully so, does not have a good reputation. Even after careful research and contemplation it is normal to feel nervous.