There are men out there that know how to find a girlfriend anywhere, anytime, and there are guys out there that have no clue about how to get a girlfriend at all.
In this article I want to show you the hidden problem most men face when trying to get a girlfriend.
For some men how to turn a date or a female friend into a girlfriend seems to be a mystery.
To be honest, it’s not often that a female friend wakes up the next day sweating, saying ‘Oh my gosh, I think I am in love with Brian’. They go from meeting to dating, and after a while of dating, they end up in a relationship or nothing at all.
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If you try to see her every day or call her every day, then you either push her so hard that she’ll feel uncomfortable and end it before committing to something she doesn’t like, or you will get into a relationship with her within days, which is very likely to have a bad ending.
Men and women that don’t have options in others are the ones who take it too far.
These women have been emotionally abused, disappointed, betrayed and they are just so hard-wired to not get hurt again. By setting unattainable standards (fantasy man) they ensure they will never again let somebody close enough to them to hurt them again.
But then, I only took one psych course in college……I like to keep things simple.
Truth is there is not much you need to do if you are a man who has options in other women.
But a man who has a lack of experience with women, and only gets a woman once in a while, of course doesn’t want to let this one get off the hook, so he wants to act. Many men think if they don’t talk with a woman they are dating every day, then she could lose her interest, so they pursue her, call her and try to push her to become their girlfriend.
The progression from friendship to relationship is very rare, but still not impossible.