And yeah, physical attraction is a vital part of any romantic relationship - we may love our partners for their mind, but we them for their arse.
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A lot of guys are absolutely convinced that the only way they can get a woman to like them is if they're built like a Norse God, standing 7 feet tall with abs like . However, while the bodybuilder physique of Kratos or Jin Kazama is indeed a fantasy, it's a women about an ideal fantasy body type, they tend to favour leaner builds - less Thor and more Nightwing.
You may have noticed that when you went through those subreddit threads - a lot of love for the lean swimmer's build.
Hell, check out the #huskytwitter tag and see how much love some big dudes are getting.
Second: The thing that you may have missed when you were reading that subreddit thread was that women were saying that they couldn't date someone they weren't physically attracted to.
Yet threads about dating men on the r/askwomen sub Reddit make me feel as if no one would be interested in dating a guy who is my weight, or that I might have to receive quite literally hundreds of "no"'s before receiving even one "yes" -- a rejection rate that would be very difficult to endure. Should I continue to remove myself from the dating scene until some far future day when I am much thinner?
Even then, people who lose weight often suffer from a loose skin problem (a painful surgery rarely covered by insurance), so I sometimes despair of being one of those rare men who enter their elderly years as virgins. But let's start with the obvious issue: your weight and body size. Men have a tendency to convince themselves that women fall for big muscular dudes - the same barrel-chested piles of muscle that we've been worshiping in video games and comics for decades.
But that's where you make a couple classic mistakes that many people make.
First: you're assuming that women are a monolith and all want the same thing.
Someone who makes people laugh and feel good about themselves?