But now that you two are involved, Ben needs to demonstrate respect for both you and your new relationship by taking the reigns on his divorce.
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There are some important situations to watch out for when the guy is not divorced yet.
Within a week of this he informed me that she was texting him constantly and putting him under a lot of pressure and he was feeling guilty.
On our 4th and 5th date he suddenly went very cold on me. He then informed me that he was going to see his wife to ‘sort things out and move on one way or the other’ and he hope I understood!
Most women don’t realize tremendous downside of dating while separated.
My intuition is telling me to walk away from my current romantic situation but there are other factors involved and I don’t want to make a mistake.
I was fine with that but, heard nothing for a few days so naturally I was a little anxious when he eventually text me.
He said things were really bad between then and then had loads to sort out.
Up until this point, Ben’s been content to let his ex wife call the shots regarding their separation. Some people (especially men) take this approach because they are holding out hope for reconciliation.