If there is a call of God on your life, you cannot be aloof.
Many people “claim” Jesus and God, but are not the real thing. Spiritually we are to be discerning as well—if you are spirit-filled, anointed and read the Holy Word of God (the truth), you will be sharpened and will be able to spot a counterfeit.
Like a well-trained banker, you will be able to see a counterfeit when it is presented to you. (Matthew ) I know people who have met “Christian” men who are just the same as the worldly guys and sometimes can be worse…so beware! Don’t ignore the red flags or checks in your spirit.
Courtship always has marriage as its direct goal.” Evaluate Your Relationship First things first, ladies, we need to make sure you are of age to date and/or court (Biblically date).
The initial question you want to ask yourself is: “Is this person a true believer and follower of Christ?
Definitely heed to wise counsel (Proverbs ) because your family and friends care for you, but make sure the counsel aligns itself with the Bible, and if it is about superficial reasons or something opposing a good thing God has joined, then use caution.
You cannot please everyone, and you have to ultimately go with what God has for you and what makes you happy.Here are some tips and pieces of advice pertaining to the subject.Different people have unique terms for “dating,” but the most common one in the Christian world is “courtship” or “courting.” It is an intentional way of dating in a Biblical manner.Courting: Dating with Intention Allow him to approach your dad or father figure.If you are still living at home, having your boyfriend or the guy whom you are being courted by or dating meet your father is a good idea.Does he represent a godly man who is pursuing the Kingdom? ” Many people “claim” Christianity as if it is a nationality or something they were born into, but it is a lifestyle, and who you worship reflects what you believe. This doesn’t mean people don’t have ups and downs, but for the majority of the person’s recent time in their life, you want to evaluate and ask yourself, “Is this person a Christian, a follower of Jesus and a genuine worshipper of God? If you are a believer and want to be in an intentional relationship with a man of God, then you will want to be with someone who is on the same path spiritually (not holding you back, or just simply attending church).