Here you are dating someone who you think could have BPD (or Bipolar).I know these two things are different, but often times men and women get them confused.You probably believe that there is “no way” that you’re Borderline or Codependent or whatever. It’s been proven over and over again that we are drawn to individuals who have similar “vibes” as us.
Tips dating someone with bipolar
You can’t help but want to love them despite their flaws. There’s nothing wrong with loving someone who has BPD or Bipolar.
So you end up bending your rules, going out of your way to make their lives happy.
However, these relationships can be extremely painful if you don’t have your shit together.
You’ve got to have the right attitude, the right mindsets, and a powerful belief system. Most people who come across my BPD and Bipolar lessons here are good people with good hearts.
Borderline’s and people with Bipolar Disorder will often try to tear you down. Emotional control, in my opinion, is all about having thick skin that’s equivalent to 10-inches of solid steal. What I want you to do is confuse this Attitude as you becoming some non-emotional drone. Emotions are good, they’re powerful, they are what make us human. But there’s a positive way of using your emotions and a negative way. You can start playing to win instead of playing to not lose.
But this is simply a reflection of their own inner turmoil. Most people let their emotions override their rational thought, resulting in the mistakes piling up one after another. When you avoid mistakes, all you can do is move up and up.
Here’s the truth: The internet and social media has completely changed the game.
As Fredrik Ecklund states in his great book The Sell, the world today is much different than it was just 5 years ago.
You want the best for you, your partner and the relationship.
You wouldn’t be here if that wasn’t the case, right?
Having dated many women with BPD/Bipolar, I learned their thought processes. As a result, you’ll get the love, the sex and the life that you want. I’ve had a lot of crazy girlfriends over the years.