Did she mention a favorite a TV show in her description, does it look like she travelled somewhere cool in her photos, does she list beach volleyball as one of her interests?
If you compliment a woman on her looks in a first message, you’re coming on too strong.
Women will assume you’re only interested in one thing.
Too short and they go in the pile of “ If you’re looking for an authentic committed relationship, something a bit more fleeting, someone to go out on adventures with or someone to come over at night for Netflix binges, know your own wants and desires.
It seems crazy, I know, but take the one or two minutes it takes to actually read the profile.
Good luck out there, and may the words be with you!
[image: via Joi Ito on flickr] Ready for conscious, like-minded individuals you really want to meet?
In order to get a reply from a first message, it needs to be unique.
Pull something from her profile that indicates you’ve taken the time to get to know her.
Thus making an introduction easier and far less intimidating.
If rejection happens it’s not as personal or awkward (usually).
This will help spark an idea about where to take the message.